May 27
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I am sure most of you have heard “I can count my friends on one hand”.  Do they mean that only a few acquaintances can actually be counted as a “true” friend?  Just think about it.  How many of your acquaintances have stuck with you through the “thick and thin“; in spite of disagreements, disappointments, pain, anger, ups, and downs?  Have they been there for you?   Not very many.  I think we all can agree to that.

Where is that person who “sticketh closer than any brother” (The Bible, KJV) when you need them? If you do have one, two, or more; count yourself blessed. Friends like this are hard to find and they are like a lost treasure today. Our society has become so self centered that we put ourselves above our family members and our friends.

On the other hand, could we be looking at this all wrong? Our perceptions are often wrong; how we see someone. If we think of them as another child of God and that He loves them in spite of what they do, then we can begin to “shift” our thinking to the fact that maybe there has been something in their past that has kept them from really knowing how to be a good and true friend. If we can learn to accept them as they are and find the good in them, we may be surprised how many “true” friends we really have.

Think about it!  Call someone today or send an email and let someone know how thankful you are to have them as a FRIEND!

From the desk of……..

Stephanie “Stevie” Williams

 

May 23
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Ladies, my mother always told me to act like a lady in public and like an animal in the bed.  Well, she was definitely wise in that statement.  As mentioned, I have been married for over 40 years and the sex life is still active and hot!  Yes, I said HOT!

If there is one way to lose your man, it is by being too “prissy” to relax and give him 100% of YOU.  In the Bible it says that his body belongs to you and likewise, so enjoy it wherever or however is best for the both of you.

Dress up like a “woman on the prowl”, put on a wig, wear extra makeup, or do whatever you need to do to keep it exciting.  If he likes you the way you are, more power to you!  It takes less time to get ready.  Whew!

After 40 years, I have to stay creative :)  I’m just keeping it real!  Let’s talk about it!

Written by Stephanie “Stevie” Williams

May 22
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How many times have you met someone and thought that person had it all together except for one thing? Immediately you probably thought that if you could change that one thing about them, this relationship may work or if you give it time, you may be able to live with it.The reality is you will probably not change that one “thing” about that person and, if you can’t live with it now, you won’t be able to live with it later.
I have found that many women fall into this mind set and later regret it. When we face the fact that we can’t change people, then we are able to be more patient and willing to look at their strengths and how God can change the other “thing” in His time.
I have been married for over 40 years and I still get upset with my husband about the way he says or does certain things. I can even predict when and what he will say before he does it. Now, I must admit that I am not perfect myself, but I don’t always see my flaws as he sees them.